many a time i have to remind myself that being a doc.. you just to be there and to just listen...
and let a feeling of love flow into the other person..
as some one said....... 'love' is only prescription needed for 90 % of population in India and world... if it does not work.. just double the dose !
Dear HSR,
This is beautiful. Thank you so much. Isn't it amazing - when a lesson needs to be drilled into you - it happens! I am forwarding this to all my friends.
Thanks
Shaila
On Fri, Feb 19, 2010 at 7:39 PM, HS Ratti <ratti2@gmail.com > wrote:
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Just StayA nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside.
'Your son is here,' she said to the old man.
She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened..
Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack,he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside
the oxygen tent.
He reached out his hand.
The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man's
limp ones, squeezing a message
of love and encouragement.
The nurse brought a chairso that the Marine could sit
beside the bed.
All through the night the
young Marine sat there
in the poorly lit ward,
holding the old man's hand
and whispering
words of love and strength.
The nursesuggested he
move away and rest awhile.
But he refused.
Whenever the nurse came
into the ward,
the Marine was oblivious of her
and of the noises in the hospital -
the clanking of the oxygen tank,
the laughter of the night staff exchanging greetings,
the cries and moans
of the other patients.
Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words.
The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.
Towards early dawn, the old man died.
The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited patiently.
Finally, she returned.She started to offer words
of sympathy,
but the Marine interrupted her.
'Who was that man?'he asked.
The nurse was startled,'He was your father,'
she answered.
'No, he wasn't,' the Marine replied.
'I never saw him before in my life.'
'Then why didn't you say something when I took you to him?'
'I knew right away there had been a mistake,
but I also knew he needed his son, and his
son just wasn't here.
When I realized that he was too sick to tell
whether or not I was his son,
knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.'
The next time someone needs you .... just be there. Stay.
**************
WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS GOING THROUGH A
TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.
WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGSGOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE.
(I love this line)
PLEASE PASS THIS ONE ON AND GOD WILL BLESS YOU!
Happy Trading,
United we grow!!!
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