As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software
Engineer and joined a company based in USA , the land of braves and
Opportunity. When I arrived in the USA ; it was as if a dream had come true.
Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be
Staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have
Earned enough money! To settle down in India .
My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only
Asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat. I wanted to do some
Thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time
Passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using
Cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at
McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign
Exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.
Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10
Days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my
Ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually
Enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone
Then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going
Through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter
I was forced to select one candidate.
In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3
Days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time
To return to USA , after giving some money to my parents and telling the
Neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA .
My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started
Feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a
Week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing. After two more
Years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were
Gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they
Asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to India . But part work part monetary
Conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then
Suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I
Tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India . The
Next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there was no one
To do the last rights the society members had done whatever they could. I
Was depressed. My parents had passed away without seeing their grand children.
After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my
Wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a
Suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the
Property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the
USA . My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in
India. My 2 children and I returned to USA after promising my wife I
Would be back for good after two years.
Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my
Son was happy living in USA . I decided that had enough and wound-up every
Thing and returned to India . I had just enough money to buy a decent 02
Bedroom flat in a well-developed locality. Now I am 60 years old and the
Only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby
Temple . My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this? My father, even after staying
In India , had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing
More.
I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned
Cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing
their values and culture because of it.
I get occasional cards from my children
Asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.
Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will be
Performing my last rights, God Bless them. But the question still remains
'Was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer...... ......... .!!!!
By an Indian SE.
BigGains !!
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